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Welcome

As you said no set timeline

Hard to give more advice without more info

You cannot control her process

So tell us more about you and your situation

You can control you

Extreme weight loss and exercise is common

Particularly for women of MLC

Extreme weight gain is common

Particularly for women in depression

But what else is going on

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving