I think she's in a little bit of shock, and it certainly waiting to see if the bottom falls out of this. She either feels like these are too big of changes or I can't make them permanent. .
If this is what you really want and how you feel then make them permanent. This isn't a game, it really is retraining how we love our significant other. If we just go through the motions it won't last and why we got in this place.
THIS ^^^^^^^^
I am now nearly 15 months into my emotional makeover as a H. It took her weeks to embrace my changes, month to fully trust them. There were lots of tests along the way.
I love the sandi rule that says to stay consistent and not regress on your hard earned changes. Dr. Phil says that 1 cross word can undo 1000s of compliments. Make sure you have changed at the root level, and not just put a fresh coat of paint on the exterior.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
