MLC? Confused what to do (Part 2)

[SteveLW]

Anthony, the "threaten divorce" comment concerns me. Many LBSs have gone that route, hoping to get their WAS to change, only to end up D'd despite not wanting to be. When you say threaten D is that because you are willing to file for D to get her out of the house, but don't really want D? Or are you saying threaten D because you are okay with that eventuality and ready to D if she isn't giving up OM?

Anthony, you seem to really be driven by emotion. You get upset, angry or hurt, and then you get impatient. Why do you have to do anything right now? What does her going to the comedy club this weekend mean that you think you have to push a decision now? I feel you are still looking for the "magic wakeup pill" that will get her to see what she is doing is wrong, hurtful and not a good path to go down. There is no such pill.

Get busy. Stay busy. Stop letting her words and actions impact you so forcefully. You will not be successful in fully moving on mentally and emotionally, no matter what your W decides, if you continue to let her get you spinning.