I don't think she wants to leave. Financially she is scared to. Otherwise she would have done it already. She has never lived on her own. I will have to give her some money each month if we don't do a legal separation. Not sure how much I would give her but I would have to give her some. She will take a car with her too. I will have to threaten divorce if she doesn't go the temporary separation way. My L advised me to do divorce instead of legal separation due to the extra spousal support I would be required to pay in a legal separation. This will be interesting how it plays out. I have an IC appointment today. I will speak to IC and then come up with a plan. We are supposed to do MC next Tuesday. Which is technically a waste of time.

Last edited by AnthonyA; 03/06/19 02:08 PM.

T: 17 M:10
Me: 38 W: 36
S:9 D:7 D:7
ILYBNILWY - 1/29/19
Affair Confirmed: 2/9/19
Divorce Filed: 5/9/2019