.... I did get heated at the end. I think I could have done better at that. ..
H"I need a break.. can we resume this when I am calmer? like in 5 minutes...."
Yeah - I sort of did that - I more or less said "OK, I am obviously getting heated here now knowing you have done no research and still think a divorce is a 5 minute thing we can fill out online.. and have not thought of any implications (emotionally, financially, plan,etc) for our kids. Before I leave, is there anything else you want to say? If not I am done for now".
It was not the best tone. I was not yelling, but you could tell I was emotional. I need to try to remove emotion next time we talk.
Thanks R2C as always. You have helped me so much already (as with others)!