and blurted out 'this is why we are not compatible anymore'
What does she mean by this? Do you know what she means? If not, none threatening,probing question might have been called for.
"Please restate that so I can understand..." "Please clarify" "What part of this. I need specifics" "I want to understand.."
Yeah - this is her reasoning for divorce ... That her and I are not 'compatible' any more (apparently never were in her mind as *everything* is negative all the way back to wedding night). That we just don't see eye to eye on things, that we have different interests, etc etc. It's really what she is telling herself to make her self feel justified in her A she is having.
