Depression - an understandable side effect of being a LBS - puts a big damper on libido and general enjoyment of things. If you're feeling "meh" about dating, evaluate whether you might be depressed.
If not, then it just might be an unwillingness to be vulnerable again.
I think for me it is more the latter. I certainly do not feel depressed. There are ups and downs of course but, for the most part, I feel pretty good.
I don't feel like it is a libido issue. I am definitely frustrated if you catch my drift but don't feel like just going out to hook up right now. That's not even really me actually.
