This is the nugget of gold:
Quote
You never say things you love about me except my looks and how good a mother I am.

translated "Keep telling me things you love. I feel good when you do this. "

Notice and verbalize the things you appreciate (in addition to the mother and her looks)

When she looks hot:
You say "You have a good sense of style. You look stunning in that outfit" (appreciate the effort she went though)


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712