Hi everyone.....so after 3 weeks of seeing him last and no contact......today I get a message from him saying that he hopes I have a wonderful holiday away .....any thoughts on if I should respond.....or not. Also its his birthday on Saturday.......do I acknowledge it or just stay silent?? I am finding it really hard not to feel sorry for him and (perhaps stupidly), would at least like him to know that he is not forgotten......