Wow, just kind of fizzled out. I'm so glad that ExOM is now placing the blame with your H. Odd that he is now being nice to you, but I guess since you guys were close before and then the anger goes and the feelings return.
But I don't understand this part: "I've been wondering how much of my story about you was the depression and how much of it was who you were back then, when you would hurt people with your emotions."
Was ExOM meaning your depression or his own? Was ExOM meaning that being an emotional person causes harm to others, or there is an implication that you were acting out from those emotions. I actually think my own H might say that my emotions was one of the biggest problems between us, so this hits somewhat close to home for me.
