Likely other man is not a branch she can completely jump to in order to support her weight. Either because he can't (married, not leaving his W, not financially able, etc). We have a saying around her, a monkey will only leap from their branch if they have identified another branch that can support them. IE, it sounds like Plan A is starting to fall apart.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
