So just don't discuss anything at this point? Just go home and take care of the kids and do my thing? Don't even discuss the live there or not, etc? If she talks about R, just validate and not say anything?
I said not to initiate. If she does then it's fine to reply. I'm with Sandi though, I don't understand why you would be OK with her continuing to live there while carrying on with an affair. It's like convincing yourself it's OK to live with gangrene even though it's incredibly painful because your leg is still attached, but you've already lost your leg to it and if you ignore it you'll lose more of yourself as well, maybe everything. Maybe a morbid example, LOL! But I'm sure you see the point. Living with a WW will destroy your life. Again, look up TXHubby's posts and read them. Here's a synopsis post he made:
