It's not new. You didn't immediately agree to her terms so now she's telling a "little white lie" hoping that will pull you in. She's just trying to manipulate you. And don't you love that fuzzy "stepping back" comment, what does that even mean? She's probably thinking "just oral sex, nothing serious". Until she says "OM is out of the picture and I am willing to give you full access to my phone, email and social media accounts to prove it" there's really nothing to discuss.
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I still plan on talking to her tonight about her staying there, etc and working on myself.
DO NOT initiate R discussions, EVER. DO NOT tell her you are working on yourself. DB'ing is ACTION, not WORDS.
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Just wanted to indicate what she said. Not sure if talking to S9 impacted her at all and woke her up at all or not.
I understand you want to spin a rosy scenario out of this but it doesn't mean anything. Take a long-term view, improvements may happen months from now but right now it's just more WW stuff.
