Ok so I know the old adage, believe nothing they say and only 50% of what they do. There is a new development. She just texted me (I never spoke to her or texted her back on the previous text asking me what to do).
"She indicated that she wanted to let me know that she is taking a step back actually a few steps back from OM. Nothing to deal with her and I but she needs it for herself because she is just feeling more stressed about everything and she needs to focus on herself. So if that helps me at all" - her text
I just responded OK. I still plan on talking to her tonight about her staying there, etc and working on myself. Just wanted to indicate what she said. Not sure if talking to S9 impacted her at all and woke her up at all or not. I am not getting excited or saddened by it. Not sure what to make of it. I am still planning on doing me and taking care of kids.
