And then there’s this option. This sounds good, too. Boys’ Night Out. Throw in a movie or two for OS, get more of that time with YS that I crave and can’t get enough of. Take the boys to Chick-Fil-A around the corner, or order in a pizza. Or something like that. I don’t need my mom swinging by to bring over dinner like W did when I was out at Formal.
If nothing else, this would prove to me that I CAN DO THIS. Admittedly, a side benefit would be that she would notice, too—but to paraphrase what LH has said previously, why should I care what she / others think? No expectations, right?
That's what I'm talking about! You know, I'm kind of glad I don't have kids in my sitch, but it'd be pretty cool to have a couple little partners in crime to have some fun with. You should take advantage of that, because they'll be big and kicking your butt before you know it!
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
