maybe things moved quick with Mary and are slowing down a bit. Make sure you're still taking care of yourself and try to look at the relationship with Mary as objectively as possible.
As for your STBXW, well I hope you can find healing in regards to how things went down and make positive changes within yourself to make sure you attract the right kind of person. Also, I think it's kind of normal that you still think about her as she is the mother of your child.
Good luck!
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
