Embracing my inner me

[Rita]

I second everything that DnJ says here! That is the point of the litany/novena we are doing. You don't have to tell God that you hate his plan. You just have to keep walking in faith that he will enable you, in any storm, including this one, to have all the fruits he wants you to have, the ones that DnJ lists -- patience, forgiveness, love, etc. You think you are going to have peace with a divorce, but a divorce is not going to change your feelings. Don't let your grief harden your heart. Just feel the grief, it's okay! It's your cross right now! Even if you got a divorce tomorrow, it won't make the pain go away. It will just let you get some kind of revenge on your H, but that will never satisfy you in the long run.

I might stop in again tonight, praying for you and with you! Delay all actions, like DnJ is saying. Instead of taking actions, just pray. Try the psalsm, just read one out loud every time you want to go on social media or tell your H what you really think.