I know her to well, when she gets mad she will say all sorts of things that she never means. So whenshe said that I didn’t not take it seriously
This is very interesting to me. I wonder if she is saying some of her true feelings and you are dismissing them. I know people tend to exaggerate or hyperbolize when they are mad....but I imagine some of the undertones and concepts are probably meaningful. I wonder if she feels dismissed or ignored in these instances...