Reconnection takes the patience of JOB. To me, this is the most difficult stage because we see improvements, we see them reconnecting and we want to them be back in the here and now at this very moment. Patience, listening and affirming them is very important right now. We want to talk to them about what happened and how we feel and where we need to go from here, but that talk will come much later.
She is still very fragile and she feels safe w/you, but not safe enough yet to hear everything. Continue to drop those crumbs of love and friendship and she'll follow.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
