So are you guys recommending kicking her out of the house or just letting her "cake eat" and I just move on with living my life and taking care of the kids, etc.
I don't mind if she is there. I just need to quit letting her attitude, emotions, actions, etc impact me and what I need and want to do.
I mean if we get legally separated, I would be paying probably more for her to go be with the OM through spousal support, etc. So either way, I am paying for it. I think I am ok with her being there. She has offered up the MBR and she can take the spare bedroom.
I just focus too much on the MR and not on me. There are a lot of things I want to do (GAL) that I have held back for the last couple months. Need to get back on it. I have not been doing my home improvement projects that help me. I have been exercising. I want to do more. I want to eat healthier.
