ovr buddy, sorry man. I know this isn't easy. And having her parents involved makes it tougher. Your last paragraph is 100% correct. Stop focusing on her and just focus on yourself. Double down on get a life. Keep up the 180s. And definitely keep working on detaching.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018