These feelings on nervousness. Oh man, those are so hard. I remember when seeing her, or discussing things, how nervous and mixed up I’d get.
You are right, you will get passed this, and it does takes some time. It is difficult at first to consider time our friend, I’m glad to see you’re ahead of the curve.
And it’s ok to miss your wife and best friend. I still miss mine.
Loving detachment and letting go. Those are pretty good goals, in my opinion. I believe they are well within your ability to find.
Stay strong.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
