I have been rather cold to her because it is hard to be nice or happy around someone who is openly having an affair and such. It is hard to pull 180s with her and be the man a fool would want to leave knowing all of what she is doing behind my back and technically in the open. How do I do 180s, make changes and appear happy around her knowing the affair is happening. I hope Sandi is able to chime in with all of this.
I have made it clear that I am not leaving the house. I have made it clear that I am not willing to be in an open marriage. I have started to show my feelings and emotions that I typically held in.
