It's top of my list. I read somewhere - can't remember where - that the greatest gift you can give your partner, and anyone else who cares about you - is taking responsibility for your physical and emotional health. I know I have overworked myself to the point of exhaustion and relied on H to remind me to rest and eat, etc - and the circumstances have required me to do a total 180 on that kind of self-care and I want to keep that going no matter what happens. I deserve food and rest and clean bedsheets and time outside. And so do you.