I emerge. I rise. I AM Phoenix9. (Phoenix9 DB XII)

[sandi2]

I think it's rude to make you wait for an answer. Maybe she's paying you back for making her wait when you waited a couple of days to respond to her text. If you don't hear back in an appropriate time period. you need to find you something else to do to that night you wanted to take her out. Should she call you at the last minute again with some excuse, or if she wants to reschedule the date, I think my suspicious nature would rapidly rise. I'm pretty sure I would have another engagement during the time she suggests. She doesn't need to think you are home waiting to hear from you. Neither is it acceptable for her to contact you while you are on your way there when she calls and tries to sort of get out of the date. I mean......what's that all about? She needs to get in or out, but stop playing around. You aren't going to waste valuable time on a female that wants to play.these types of games.

I hope you will google what R2C sent and watch the video. He made some clear remarks that made me think of you.

Have a good night's sleep and wake up to a good day. You will decide if it is positive or not. I want to ask you one more thing before closing tonight. Who are you doing all these changes for? If they are for you, then why do have expectation from others. Is it your reward for the hard work you've put into reinventing your self and you want it recognized--------in particular someone of the feminine species who will be impressed or charmed by you enough to desire you company. If something happens that she must council the date......don't start giving yourself the third degree and think you don't measure up. Don't fall into despair every time a similar situation happens. Most guys go through this. But I don't think they beat up on themselves and replay every word or move made. Sometimes a man tries too hard to make him into something close to perfection. He is so guarded of his words and actions. If the woman is not receptive toward his slight advances, one he is along he goes back over every part of the date, wondering why more did not come from it. He decides he must work hard to be a man only a fool would leave. If this is your goal, then make darn sure you know what women want in a man.

I don't know that I can agree with the idea of becoming a man only a fool would leave. It seem to me that all you hard work would be for some woman. Why not become the man you want to be? You are free to be a man you want to be. You don't have to impress some woman. As long as you Improve your male attributes firsts, than maybe you'll have time to consider anything else.