Oh man

W asked me if I had plans for night of Sat. March 16th

She wants to go out to a St. Patrick's Day event with coworkers at Queen Mary in Long Beach. I told her I'd check.

Implied is I would feed myself and put boys to bed.

Thing is, last Sunday, when I chaperoned Winter Formal, she needed her Mom over to help her with all that.

What's my play?

Tell her "I have plans," or be the bigger man / parent and take care of myself and boys whereas she needed help?

Gut says channel R2C and say I have plans.


M: 36
W: 30
T: 9
M: 7

S6 (OS)
S7mo (YS)

ILYBINILWY BD: Feb. ‘18

W Wants S / D BD: 1/4/19

H / W still in-house

D papers from W: 3/14/19