So excited to see you back Survive (I have changed my user name and hope you remember who I am). I think you need to change your name to Thrive! I've never seen anyone so in touch with their feelings, boundaries, and able to articulate them in such a clear and unloaded fashion. I'm still waiting on that separation agreement (ok, more than 2.5 years in I'm not waiting anymore, but it is my leitmotif at this point and I'd hate to give it up). Hope the kids are rocking it.
