Steve, thanks for this. I've been trying to figure out what the right thing is this whole time, when nothing is the answer.

I know that I CAN be patient. 2 days down...forever to go.

Me 36, W 32
M 3 yrs, T 7 yrs
1st BD Aug 18
2nd BD Feb 19
EA w/ ex Aug 18
potential EA Feb 19
Trial Separation 3/2/19