She continues to say that she needs time to process things, to take things as they come. I'll take that as a positive...if she wanted out, I'm sure she would take it. For me, it's either in or out...there's no time to process. Either you want to be together or you don't. It feels like she's deciding whether she wants to be with me or not, but she told the MC that that wasn't the case. She wanted to be with me and save the M. Who knows...I'll just continue working on me, 180s, GAL, and self-differentiation.
This is the perfect attitude! I wish more LBSs would read this and adopt it. Limbo [censored]. Everybody hates it. But it IS the gift of time. I think most LBSs think that it would be easier if the WAW would have their stuff packed, say "ILYBINILWY", grab their stuff and walk out. Guess what, people that have that happen would KILL to be able to have the gift of time most of us get.
So breathe. Relax. Take it easy. And thank God for every second you have to try to effect a different outcome.
Miler, you are doing great. More LBSs need to pattern their actions after you.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
