Tryhard, I'm right there with you. Initially, I thought that if I just worked hard enough I could fix things, but I never changed my mentality. 6 months later I'm worse off than when I started.
Me 36, W 32 M 3 yrs, T 7 yrs 1st BD Aug 18 2nd BD Feb 19 EA w/ ex Aug 18 potential EA Feb 19 Trial Separation 3/2/19