Well, H came over today, left about 30 minutes ago and baby is sleeping. I left him with S for an hour and a half to go get a new phone. Just told him I need to head out, I'll be back in a bit. I woke up and got dressed, did my hair and makeup. Since I got my haircut, I feel like doing more with my makeup than usual, so I of course did that today, and I feel good. One of the things that drives me crazy while he is here is how much he is on his phone. Social media, texting, etc. I know S is only 3 months and pretty easy, but he only sees him once a week. Plus, I just know he's texting OW and that drives me crazy. I know I've seen boundaries about not communication AP while in the presence of spouse, but I'm not sure if that applies to us since he isn't living at the house, has been gone for 10 months and is living with her. Thoughts?
Going to enjoy the rest of the day and get S's 3 month pictures taken! Let's hope he smiles this time for them.


Married- 1y8m Together- 7.5y
M- 37 H- 31
S- 4 months
not wanting to work on things bomb- 4/15/18
left home- 5/5/18
Moved in with OW a week after leaving