The bomb woke me up, but she still won't talk

[lusa]

Thank you Steve, you are right I don't want to D and this was all me definitely coming from the wrong place. The only way we should stay together is if she chooses to from love not fear, thank you for reminding me. It's so easy for me to forget when I get scared and stressed. There are a few 180's left that I am tackling and will document shortly. I have been reading on differentiation today, very interesting.

Thank you Neffer for your kind words. I feel I have been the light for so long now, she has already followed it to a certain extent. I've come so far already I will continue to learn to detach with love for all of us and set her free.

I am calm now - the support here is so much appreciated.