Thanks, I just know she wants to tell the kids something. I just don't like the fact that she wants to just tell them we are separating and are fighting. Just half truths, etc.
I would NEVER tell the kids about the OM. Sorry, that is a big no-no. Kids should worry about kid's issues, adults should worry about adult issues.
When you talk to them, make sure a) they know you both love them, and b) that the issues are between you and your W (but not what the issues are)!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
