Everything is counter intuitive.

"Set him free" to win him back.
Do not text him when you feel like texting.
Speak up when you feel like being quiet.
Walk away when you feel like following.

At the beginning it is confusing. It is important to focus on you. You are focused on him if you initiate. Wait for him to contact you. Change up the way you respond. Surprise him with your responses.

He thinks he knows you. Prove him wrong.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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