She was trying to initiate sex again, I was on the couch and the movie was over I leaned forward and she laid her head on my lap looking straight up at me and pressed me for it, then when we went in the room she then suddenly changed her mind, I said ok then good night and went on with going to sleep.
This is exactly the kind of stuff we're talking about when we say you are "Plan B" to your WAS. She is just stringing you along and playing with your feelings. Don't fall for it anymore, if she makes an "offer" just say "I don't feel comfortable with that given our current situation." Well done on not responding emotionally though, just saying "OK" and walking away was good stuff!
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So right now, I am going to keep that I know she's looking for a place to myself and start preparing financially for that eventual BD that she's leaving. My plan is to try and get money together to payoff my 401k loan so I can take out another and get out of my truck payment to lower my vehicle payment and have money to move if/when it comes to it. Wish me luck
