Should I expose her affair with her friends? She has mentioned that she doesn't want anyone knowing about the affair. She has these Zumba friends that she has indicated that she does not want them knowing at all. Or is that not a good thing to do? I had read that exposing the affair to her close friends, etc may give her a dose of reality.
On the same note, she wants to tell our children that we are separating but doesn't want to tell them that she is having an affair. Should I tell the children so that it helps get a dose of reality of what their mother is doing?