Not sure Steve, I'm sitting here at work looking out the window directly at a L's office. Meanwhile WW's texting various irrelevant niceties and updates on the kids. I think the first thing to do is to finally talk.
I feel like I want to sit her down and say I know how long your EA was going on for, I know I was duped on BD, I know the commitment you made for the future with him and I know you recently broke your self-imposed N/C. For those reasons I want a D.
LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18 D 11 S 14 BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18 3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18 I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes) ...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!