OK so I sent a couple too many texts to dh yesterday, I don't necessarily do it to make contact but because I have a poor memory so stuff I want to share with him falls out of my head. Maybe I need to email myself a list and swot up on it before I talk to him if I have stuff I want to talk about. Did you know that John Gottman has a little notebook and takes notes when his wife talks to him? I should do that, lol. I too live in my own head and have attention issues. Anyway, so dh finally texted me back last night and said he'd been busy finishing his work (he has a big thing this morning which he is stressed about). I texted him this morning and wished him luck and asked him to ring me later. Not sure I should have done that, but I wanted to make it clear I was interested (something he keeps saying is that I'm not interested in his work life). Now I will back off and get on with things, I know he was super busy yesterday and also Sunday nights he has always been horrendous due to back-to-work stress, I should be glad I'm not living with that misery right now
Whenever I feel insecure I should focus on the happy-to-see-me face he made on Saturday. I'm also looking forward to this talk I'm giving on Wednesday, I'm a bit of a show-off so it will be fun for him to see me in a different light. I'm kind of amazed he said yes, I've done a few of these and he's refused to come along in the past.
