I don't have a lot of sage advice, as your sitch is a bit different than mine. I like your independence, you're finding your own happiness, and that's all you can ask for.
Anyways, keep up the good work and take care of those boys!!!
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.