You are sounding good. A great time at Mardi Gras party, and an accepted offer on the house. Excellent!
So OM is a married man. Affairing down is a pretty common theme here.
Originally Posted by Father5
She said he is just like Father5 and that his wife kicked him out because she isn't in love with him anymore.
Who is “she”? Your W?
At any rate, be careful with information from W. MLCer’s are master manipulators and will twist their stories to their own ends. They will expend incredible energy to maintain their fantasy. Thier illusion must be maintained at all costs.
You do seem quite detached. And your desire to stand and remain empathic to her is admirable. Kindness and compassion are noble goals and very good headings for oneself.
Keep up the GAL activities and the focus on you and kids.
You are doing well.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
