WAW says I'm the "perfect husband and partner"

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Just tell the inlaws "thanks" and if you need to add more then tell them that your W will need their support.

You don't need to talk to her family much, that's how to handle it. They will turn on you when it comes time to support their daughter. You may not believe me, but I didn't believe it either, yet here I am.

What is your plan for your living situation if you do get divorced? Are you going to buy her out of the house? If so, you definitely have no reason to leave. You have plenty of time to figure out your living arrangements, no rush to move out in 3.5 weeks. You can always tell your W "I was very upset when I said that, I've decided it's best for me to stay in the house."

Make sure you read Divorce Remedy and the LRT section. MWD lists out several forms of pursuit.