Midlife crisis wife

[Wolfman]

I never stopped my wife from moving out. Only one time 2 months ago she said she was thinking of it but didn’t. I know her to well, when she gets mad she will say all sorts of things that she never means. So whenshe said that I didn’t not take it seriously. I didn’t even respond when she brought it up. I know people have said that when I make my changes I look to see if she responds. I feel like I have to take notice to see what is working and build on that. I don’t make it obvious to her nor do I say anything. Thank you for your words of wisdom. This really helps!!!