I too am sick of my sitch dominating my thoughts, and i'm certainly guilty of really letting it affect my work and productivity over the last year. I've come to the conclusion that the frustration of realizing that you cannot control your spouse or your sitch can be turned to relief in focusing on what you can control. Your work is something you can control, give it your best and don't stop till you're proud. Do it for your kids and your future. ((Hugs))
LBH 47 WW 47, M 15 T 18 D 11 S 14 BD, I moved out (duped) Jan 18 3 yr EA with ex-H discovered: Feb 18 I moved back in: Aug 18 (against her wishes) ...No R No M/C, continued limbo, dropping the rope!