The OW/OM is usually not great catches from what we see/read here
MY XH picked his OW who was 14 years younger 28 or so at that time from what I know about her because we never met although she has face book texted myself and my kids and we spoke once when XH was in hospital many years back- I would describe her as a drug addict, her D was teen runaway,and she has psych issues from whar my XH sisters said- she looks crazy from her FB and also dresses provocative-
Sometimes it does feel good to know they picked below us- and they say they affair down- for whatever reason fast forward to today OW facebook texted me a few months ago explaining how awful XH is and how she made a mistake but she was too young abd she wanted to send him back Maybe her halfway attempt for amends? It no longer matters
You did great by walking and staying busy---good work-
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
