Nice to see the gains from the sessions with your I/C. Doing the inner work on ourselves will not be a waste no matter what the outcomes is. I love your attitude of wanting to make the most of your time. I found that sometimes I just got stuck on something and couldn’t quite figure it out, no matter how hard I tried. When that happens just sit quietly, and relax, in time the answers will present themselves.
Good for you in recognizing her patterns. Many MLCers will be nicer when they need or want something and meaner when they are off playing with the unicorns and fairies. You are doing fine, keep giving her space and time.
I hope the house offer is accepted. A good solid base for you and the kids, sounds like a good plan.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
