First court hearing was yesterday and it went very well for me, the judge admonished my W and her L for not meeting with us before coming to court. He said that we should not be in court at this time as we should have negotiated before we got there, we have five seperate correspondences asking to meet including our trip to their office where they then called it off.
The judge ruled there will be no Alimony/Maintenance in this case and was baffled that W's L didnt fully explain to her why. There were some brief discussions with the L's and the only thing left is the house needs to be appraised and if I can afford it I will buy her out. W was quite upset the entire time face was swollen teary eyed. I made no eye contact and no attempt to speak with her. She came over to me to hand me a document for tax purposes,she said do you and the kids need this I said no. She has it in front of my face and says are you going to take it I say no. She says just take it, as I go to take it she pulls it away like a child and walks away. Like water off a ducks back, I do not have a care in the world!
I guess when you think the judge is going to rule that you get $1800 a month and find out you get 0 you may get a little upset. Oh well, my journey has started and it doesnt include W.
Judge also ruled W owes for back child support and must start paying immediately. More tears, more not understanding... sorry, did you know that D has consequences...
I left the court house feeling incredible, almost vindicated that there is justice in the world.
I will update GAL activities prob tomorrow, as I am off to a UFC party.
To any newbie on here reading this... especially men... you kick your cheating spouse straight to the curb, lovingly of course lol
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
