Originally Posted by AlisonUK
Is there something in particular you are looking for before those things - him sleeping in the MB, going to therapy etc, can take place? Does he know what it is?


I’m not sure. I wasn’t expecting to hear him say that so I’m not sure. However what I will say is that I don’t think he’s capable of putting in the work to save this M. I think he thinks it’s going to be easy. He claims he’s going to prove to me that he’s willing to do the work blah blah blah.

At this point I don’t have any concrete actions from him to back his words up. Again he’s away right now and he dropped this mess a few days before he left.


Original BD: 10/26/2017
PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017
Second BD: 09/15/2018
Currently: IHS
M: 42 H: 45
S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together