Hi Dillydaf - I don't know what was happening with the quoting, but that wasn't Yorkie, it was me!
And yes - he accuses me of having tantrums too! And sometimes I did - I wasn't in charge of myself, or I was turning on the waterworks and wailing because if I couldn't get love, then I was pathetic enough to be willing to make do with pity. That is totally on me.
And sometimes I was just genuinely terribly hurt by his treatment of me, and when I cried it made him angry and he called it a tantrum, and that hurt too.
Thank you for the chat and the pursuer - distancer knowledge and experience exchange
