I am new here so I don't have experience or suggestions - I still have lots of confusion and questions about my own situation. It sounds like your H is speeding towards things, perhaps because it he thinks it will make him feel better to be certain rather than in the limbo that an unhappy marriage or even piecing would involve. It is very very early days in your situation (mine too). I think I would try not to read too much into what he is saying or doing right now. What are your GAL plans and how are they going?