Anthony. Hang in there my friend. The feelings cycle is normal. Don't worry too much about the checking account thing. My wife had a business account already otherwise she might have opened her own account when she was pushing for D. WAS are notoriously lazy about actual separation and D. But opening a bank account takes very little effort. So don't read too much into it.
Good job on the reading and 180s . You're doing great, just hang in there and GAL as much as possible.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018